Stay firm. Listen carefully. Hold your ground when a counterpart uses malicious techniques?
- Feb 12
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Stay firm. Listen carefully. Hold your ground when a counterpart uses malicious techniques.
But here’s what almost nobody tells you…
When someone throws a too‑good‑to‑be‑true promise, a deceptive proposal, or a crafted sales pitch at you, the worst thing you can do is fight it head‑on.
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐞?
• Put their “promise” in writing.
• Not to trap them.
But to expose the technique — without making them lose face.
Most negotiators don’t do this because they fear escalating the tension.
𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬:
The moment you document the claim, the manipulation becomes visible, the fog lifts, and the psychological leverage resets.
This is where most negotiators get it wrong.
Instead of arguing, you stay vigilant.
𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐚 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐂𝐥𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞:
𝘪𝘧 the claim is true → here’s what happens.
𝘪𝘧 it’s false → here’s the consequence.
No drama.
No moral lecture.
Just clarity.
And if you sense a deviant tactic behind the curtain, this is the moment, at inness, we apply RISES© — not as a weapon, but as a stabilizer.
A structured response to reclaim the frame, rebuild truth, and neutralize psychological pressure.
Preventing manipulation is not about aggression — it’s about documentation and calm transparency.
𝐒𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐦𝐲 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧:
𝘏𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘥𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘳𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘵𝘦𝘤𝘩𝘯𝘪𝘲𝘶𝘦 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘵 𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘣𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺… 𝘰𝘳 𝘢𝘮 𝘐 𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘵?



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