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Stay firm. Listen carefully. Hold your ground when a counterpart uses malicious techniques?
Stay firm. Listen carefully. Hold your ground when a counterpart uses malicious techniques. But here’s what almost nobody tells you… When someone throws a too‑good‑to‑be‑true promise, a deceptive proposal, or a crafted sales pitch at you, the worst thing you can do is fight it head‑on. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐞? • Put their “promise” in writing. • Not to trap them. But to expose the technique — without making them lose face. Most negotiators don’t do this because they
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𝗦𝗠𝗔𝗥𝗧 𝗼𝗯𝗷𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝗻 𝗻𝗲𝗴𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀. 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 “𝘄𝗵𝘆” 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀.
We’re all told the same thing in negotiation training: “Come with a clear, SMART objective.” ✔ 5% price reduction ✔ 2‑year contract ✔ Better payment terms Looks great on a slide. But in real life, this is where many negotiations silently fail. Because the 𝘰𝘣𝘫𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦 is not the real driver. The 𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘥 it is. Next time you prepare, try this: ask yourself “𝗪𝗵𝘆?” three times. “I want 5% savings.” → 𝘞𝘩𝘺? “Because Finance expects it.” → 𝘞𝘩𝘺 𝘪𝘴
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𝐖𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐧𝐞𝐠𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐞.
𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐝. According to a recent study, women now negotiate their salary 𝟓𝟒% 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐯𝐬. 𝟒𝟒% 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐞𝐧. 𝑺𝒐 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒃𝒍𝒆𝒎 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒏𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 “𝒘𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏 𝒅𝒐𝒏’𝒕 𝒂𝒔𝒌”. 𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: If women 𝒅𝒐 negotiate more often than men… …why do we still see slower increases, smaller packages, and more pushback when they ask? In negotiation, whoever sets the 𝐟𝐫�
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